"What are the top 5 non-physical aspects of a person that you find most attractive?"
1. Intelligence
2. Interests aligning: interested sports, music, movies/comedy
3. Driven; self-starter; independence
4. Chemistry/flow in our conversations
5. Spirituality

"What is your definition of love?"
Two things:
First: an intense feeling of deep affection.
And secondly: if I imagine you throwing up (just profusely; ugly upchuck, you know), and I can imagine reaching out and trying to catch you and your said 'ugly upchuck', I probably love you quite a bit ;)